To be an Escort isn’t just a money thing. It’s also very sexual, very personal, and very intimate. The media depict the business, and business it is, in a very negative light.

Escorts have the power to choose when, who and how they want to accompany and accommodate their customers. They determine when they work, how much they charge, which clients they see and how they operate their businesses. The majority of modern escorts are their own boss, manager and worker.


What are the skills required for this type of profession?  Similar to many mainstream career types, escorts require a number of skills as typical responsibilities include:

  • Point of contact for any and all matters specific to your customers
  • Build and maintain strong, long-lasting customer relationships
  • Ensure the timely and successful delivery of services according to customer needs
  • Focusing on growing and developing existing clients, together with generating new business
  • Identify and grow opportunities
  • Promoting business through social media
  • Research and

The above responsibilities would read the same for an Account Manager, Personal Assistant, Marketing coordinator etc. Key skills include:

  • Commercial awareness
  • Ability to work under pressure
  • Organisational skills
  • Interpersonal skills
  • Numerical skills
  • Verbal communication skills
  • Excellent analytical skills

Most of society will give a positive nod to anyone who embarks on a venture that allows them to bask in their entrepreneurial spirit. Although an escorting career may not be viewed as a conventional business choice, it’s an opportunity with boundless potential. And, the real bonus is that escorts get to be in charge of their own success. Establishing and enforcing their own policies and taking in 100 percent or a high percentage of the profit for themselves is a huge perk for an escort. They don’t have a boss questioning them about what they’ve been doing all day. They don’t have to ask ahead of time to get time off work for family issues or recreation. Escorts control their business as they see fit and answer to no one, other than themselves.

Escorts gain a positive body image. Many women are terribly insecure about their bodies, always wondering how they measure up against others. Comparing your figure with other women is a common trait and often leaves a woman feeling inferior or unsexy. However, they fail to realise that whatever their body type is, someone out there finds them attractive and sexy. Escorts know this. They are told they are beautiful and seductive all of the time, as clients admire their bodies and general good looks. Sure, an escort may have a few stretch marks from having children. Or, a few fine lines in her face. Or even a few (or more) extra pounds. But, to their clients, escorts are gorgeous! As an escort works in the industry, she becomes increasingly comfortable with her body. She has to; she can’t feel shameful or shy as she undresses in front of a client she barely knows. She gains confidence and satisfaction with her body and appearance, regardless of its form.

The preconceptions about escorting can be heavily entrenched in some peoples’ minds and are difficult to overcome. For that reason, most escorts keep their profession very private. A good way to maintain your anonymity and protect your loved ones from being worried or judgmental about your choices, is to only meet clients who don’t live in your neighbourhood, to blur your face or any identifying features in your profile photos or description, and to be discreet when spending your earnings.

As you can conclude, an Escort has to be entrepreneurial, smart and sexy, most of us just have to be smart!

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