6 Best Blowjob Tips
I’m not a fan of the term “blow job.” This sounds ridiculous and ridiculous. “Giving head” seems deeper and more mature. You are giving something to someone. You are showing the intimate part of your body. Your mouth, your breath, your voice.
These are people who absolutely love to suck cock for no reason. We other ordinary people have to learn, and the only way to learn is by acting. Practice and practice.
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Don’t be in a hurry; take your time.
Don’t just dive in. Take it slowly. Take it out. Offer what to expect. The whole body-to-body experience is up to you, so don’t feel like you have to fit into a prescribed, hackneyed script, which you may think goes something like this: make-out session, followed by a blow job, then possibly a rim job, with a finale of penetrative sex that ends in orgasm.
There are many things you can do to feel comfortable – before you undress. I love kissing and touching. This can be the most intimate part of sex. Taking that initial touch-first creates a wandering hand, joy and hope, and confidence.
Almost everywhere, men have insecurities about their penises. Besides, most boys of a certain age struggle to be really tough, and it takes a little while for some of us to get there.
Stop thinking blowjob as foreplay, and enjoy it.
I tell everyone to maximize foreplay. I also have some issues with the term: “Foreplay” generally describes acts that arouse and titillate you and your partner before some penetrative sex. Some sex acts — blow jobs included — are often relegated into this category, as if they are “lesser” sexual experiences than penetration.
Some people may not have intense sex. Different physical conditions can do anything. For others, penetration is not easy, and it never will be. And sometimes what we call “forward play” is more fun.
Get into blowjob headspace ahead of time.
It is an old fact that the best leaders are people on a mission. No “What do you want to do?” Funny discussion – you’re there to suck. You are in a state of mind. You’ve put yourself in the headspace before you start. You’re eating the bulge.
Start with your clothes on.
Getting undressed can be the most exciting part of sex – don’t rush it. Touch anywhere except those around you. When you finally rubbed his groin, you knew you were healing when you heard a voice say, “Oh my God, you finally got there.”
Massage his penis gently through his pants – gently, so there is no discomfort. Put on a show to get his penis out. Do it slowly, and if he’s wearing an elastic belt, make sure you don’t accidentally let him go and pop him into a ball.
Flick the frenulum.
Classic trick. The frenulum is under the penis’s head, which is the most sensitive part of the penis for many men.
I usually start by kissing the tip of my penis – the head – then going down with the tip of my tongue. I’m going to move the shaft up and down with a series of gentle, gentle kisses before licking the rest. This helps me get an idea of size, texture, and smell. This is the hottest part for me. When you’re ready, start by lightly tapping the frenulum with the tip of your tongue. Turn it up and down, slowly crawl your lips over her head, then back away. The heat from your mouth and breath is expected to shake it.
Pay attention to how his penis behaves.
Just as fisting, anal sex, BDSM, and make-up sessions are incredible, words get better when you get to the sex scene after this language. Talk becomes irrelevant and clumsy – moan, noises, and groans take power.